Hardship, whether caused by ourselves or someone else, can build character and bond us to the Lord Jesus Christ if we will let it.
As we continue looking at the discipline of God*, we are going verse-by-verse through Hebrews 12:4-13. Verses 7 and 8 tell us how to view hardship.
7 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all.
Every Christian goes through hardship of one kind or another. There is a kind of hardship, though, that is unnecessary, and that is when we cause our own hardship through willful disobedience. This behavior can be borne out of indifference or anger, both of which are destructive to ourselves and to our relationship with the Father. He only wants what is best for us, but He also knows how other people’s bad choices will affect us. In turn, He promises to walk beside us through those consequences teaching us to be like our Savior, a “man of sorrows” (Isaiah 53:3). When we rebel against His leadership in our lives through our callous indifference to His opinion or through anger caused by “the unfairness of it all**,” we WILL walk through unnecessary hardship.
We never catch God off-guard. He will walk with us until we turn back to Him. In many cases, He rescues us, just like the lost sheep in Luke 15:4-7. Other times, He waits for us to come to our senses, just like the prodigal son in Luke 15:11-24 (especially verse 17). It is always best for us when we turn back to Him. The Father rejoices and we begin to rebuild our lives, our relationships, our testimony, and our walk with Him.
Abba, may we make daily minor adjustments according to Your Word and Your Spirit so that we don’t have to make the big ones that hurt and are such a drastic life-change. Walking with You is not painless, but it is productive as we “endure discipline as sons (and daughters), for You are treating us as Your children” (paraphrased). We trust in Your love for us, O Lord. Amen.
*Concerning the first secret from Secrets of the Vine by Bruce Wilkinson, “If your life consistently bears no fruit, God will intervene to discipline you.”
**Anakin Skywalker Syndrome