Hate is at the core of our human nature and is the basis for how we treat people–and God! We need the Spirit!!!
9 Who can say, “I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin?”
8 When a king [the LORD] sits on his throne to judge, he winnows out all evil with his eyes. [Proverbs 15:11]
Chaste- Virtuous, undefiled, stainless, kept.
Thoughts lead to actions. God says for us to guard our hearts.
Thoughts, hearts/feelings, actions–they’re all connected!
There are quite a few areas in which we humans are susceptible to sin: Entitlement, Lust, Pride, Vanity, Impatience, Selfishness, Sloth, Anger, Spite, Rage, Hate, Gluttony, and Fear, to name a few. So far, we looked at Anger, Spite, and Rage. Today we cover Hate.
Hate- Hate (hatred) is a strong emotion. It is the expression of what is at the core of our hearts. People think that the opposite of hate is love when in actuality apathy is. Hate and love are really very close together on the emotional scale. They both are expressions of passion, which is what we feel the most strongly. Love turns to hate when a person is wronged; hate turns to love when a person is loved. One we feel strongly for; the other we feel strongly against.
Jesus changed the Pharisees’ editorial of the Law in His Sermon On the Mount (Matthew 5-7). Here’s what He said,
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect [mature, whole, complete, adult], therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect [just like God].
What can we glean from Jesus’ command to love?
- To love is a decision of the will. Hate is our beginning emotion. We hate because someone hurt us, because they are different, because we didn’t get our way or someone is keeping us from getting our way. We need to learn to hate hate!
- Actions not only speak louder than words, they have the power to change our minds. God asks us to act out of His character rather than our own. He gives us both the desire and the power to do it [Philippians 2:13]. If we can change the way we act, it will change the way we think, which will change the way we feel. Here’s the promise, “Don’t copy [actions] the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing [feelings] and perfect.
- We become like God, who always acts out of His wholeness and goodness. We become mature, complete, whole, and adult when we act on God’s command to love. We are most pleasing to the Father when we love.
Did you know that hating can actually be a good thing? “If you want to be my disciple, you must, by comparison, hate everyone else—your father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even your own life. Otherwise, you cannot be my disciple.” Luke 14:26. In our relationship with Jesus, everything else, everyONE else must take not only a backseat to Him in our lives, but we must die to them. We must love Jesus SO MUCH that how we feel about anything and anyone else seems like hate. Can we do this? Not without MAJOR HELP! The Holy Spirit of God is the Answer to our dilemma. Here’s what it looks like to have to choose between our friends and God, “Jesus turned to Peter and said, ‘Get away from me, Satan! You are a dangerous trap to me. You are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God’s.’” Matthew 16:23. We must ask for this same passion to do God’s will in our lives.
There’s one more thing about hate that we should know: Hate leads to malice, which leads to bitterness, which leads to death–of a relationship and of our health. Sin destroys us. Give it up. Let it go. Throw it down. As I said before, we must learn to hate hate. Turn to Jesus and ask for His love and compassion to flow through you. Die to self and how you feel [Galatians 2:20]; dead men don’t have feelings. Instead, seek first His kingdom [Matthew 6:33] and love will be given to you, pressed down, shaken together and running over [Luke 6:38–a great verse!].
Abba, I pray for my readers that they will learn to recognize hate in their hearts and use it as a catapult to take them straight to Your throne. May they give it to You as quickly as they can, and may You replace their hate with compassion. May they act out of love for the person they are feeling so strongly against and may You turn their hate into love for that person. LOVE THROUGH THEM, JESUS! In this way, the world will know that we are Your disciples, as You told us in John 13:35. Love through us today, LORD. Amen.