Portraying Christ in how we treat each other is how we shine our light. They’ll know we are Christians by our love for each other.
1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife.
Shining our light begins at home. We betray ourselves when we get angry at our spouse, the kids, the dog or cat, the TV and other inanimate objects. It reveals an impatient spirit with erroneous expectations. Those expectations are:
- Unspoken– People cannot meet an unspoken expectation because they do not know there is one. Having this expectation reveals an arrogant spirit.
- Unrealistic– Sometimes, we have expectations that simply cannot be reached. We need to place them in the hands of Jesus and ask for wisdom and discernment. This expectation reveals a desire to be God in our own lives.
- Unmet– This expectation happens when the other two are in play. How we respond reveals our heart. Remember that the heart merely amplifies our inner selves; what comes out? Cutting or curse words? Anger? Explosive temper? A desire to lash out? to punish (either by striking or by withdrawing our approval and/or friendship)? This expectation reveals a lack of maturity.
Finding our peace in the LORD Jesus is important; it’s the only way to allow the little things to pass by without getting under our skin, so to speak. Let’s look at some verses:
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Ephesians 4:2-3
Get rid all of bitterness, rage and anger, brawling [fist-fighting] and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31-32
Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Colossians 3:15
How do we go about making these verses come true in our lives? By daily reading them and asking the Spirit to apply them. Ask Him to call your attention to every time you start to go down the road of one of those expectations. Stop and restart. For instance,
“Why did you do it that–wait. I’m sorry. Let me start over. I see that you did that a certain way. I was curious as to your motive; did you have something specific in mind?”
This example shows how the Spirit makes us aware of what we are doing even as we do it. He actually shows us BEFORE we do it when we get better at catching ourselves before we start. The trick is to pause before responding/reacting and give Him time to warn us.
We CAN do this, folks. We have all our lives to get it right. But, let’s not take ALL OUR LIVES to start working on it. Let’s start today by diving into His Word.
Abba, You know how I have worked on this and still get it wrong. Even so, I have enjoyed the interaction with Your Spirit. I have also made great strides, so I’m encouraged. I know You are pleased with me because I can feel Your pleasure and Your peace. I want to be better at it, so please take me higher up and further into Your ways and Your desires. I want to be just like You, Jesus. Amen.