Watch your language! It reveals what you are thinking. It exposes attitudes that may not be godly. Is godliness your goal? If not, why not?
3 A fool’s mouth lashes out with pride, but the lips of the wise protect them.
7 Stay away from a fool, for you will not find knowledge on their lips.
Have you ever noticed that slang language refers to body parts and functions, many of them sexual in nature? We draw mental pictures with the words we use. The Hebrew language, the Chinese language, and other early civilizations use pictographs as letters. The pictographs are 3D in nature. The Hebrew language has a picture and a number associated with each letter of each word. In the Chinese language, each pictograph tells a story even as they spell a word. In the same way, when we use a specific word that refers to a body part or function, we call up a mental picture in the minds of our listeners.
Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion. Prov. 11:22
What is referred to as “potty mouth” is language that speaks of body functions concerning excrement and other functions that go in a potty. Is that the image you want to call up in the minds of those who are listening? Your spouse? Your children? Your boss? Your LORD?
The apostle Paul gives a pretty strong charge for us to watch our language:
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God [by what you say], with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Ephesians 4:29-30
4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. Ephesians 5:4
The greatest offense is using words that have a sexual connotation or draw attention to sexual body parts. It’s just not a godly thing to do. As a biblical reference, let’s look at John 8 where the religious leaders dragged before Jesus a woman who was caught in adultery. What did Jesus do? He bent down and wrote in the sand. He didn’t look at her or address her until her accusers had left. Was He ignoring her? Not at all. He was honoring her by not looking upon her while the topic was being discussed. He avoided even the possibility of Him being accused of anything inappropriate. But, it wasn’t about Him; it was about her. She was His creation, His child, and He cared for her. She was valuable to Him, and He treated her so.
Let’s treat our loved ones the same way by watching what we say and how we say it. Let’s find different ways to express ourselves that don’t call attention to body parts or anything with a sexual connotation. Is our language a point of salvation? No, but it does have quite a lot to do with our sanctification (becoming like Jesus).
Abba, You have dealt with me on this subject several times as You called me from one level to another in my walk with You. Right now, You are working on my “response” to people when under pressure. Help me to respond as You would, O LORD. May I always convey my love and Your love with my words and facial expressions. I feel like I’m asking the impossible, but I’m counting on You to do the impossible for me. I thank You in advance. Amen.