Whatever has a stronghold in our lives, a besetting sin, there IS a way to beat it–today. It’s part of our walk, our story.
5 They [God’s commands and his teachings] will keep you from the adulterous woman [any besetting sin*], from the wayward woman with her seductive words.
*A besetting sin is one to which on account of our constitution, or circumstance or both, we are peculiarly exposed, and into which we most easily and most frequently fall. In the life of every individual, there is a “besetting” sin that can tower like a mountain between the individual and God. The verb of which besetting is the participle form means “to surround with hostile intent; to set upon, attack, assault on all sides.” For example,
The fox was beset by hounds.
St. Anthony was beset by demons.
Believers are beset with sin.
In the expression besetting sin, however, the word “besetting” seems to mean “chief” or “principal.” Judging from usage, a besetting sin is one to which a particular individual is particularly susceptible. Besetting Sin-Definition
This chapter holds the key to overcoming strongholds in our lives. The strongholds keep us from fellowshipping fully with our Savior and from living the victorious Christian life that God desires for us to enjoy.
7:1 My son [child], keep my word and store up my commands within you.
This verse is a call to learn all we can about God, Jesus, the Spirit, and ourselves. His Word is where we start. It’s why we must read it everyday, preferably early in the morning so that it can help us form our attitudes for the day. It starts us off in the right frame of mind.
7 I saw among the simple, I noticed among the young men, a youth who had no sense.
Learning from our own mistakes is being smart; learning from others’ mistakes is being wise. Pay attention to those who seem to enjoy life in all the wrong ways. We will notice that eventually the consequences of “free” living will catch up with them. “Payday Some Day.” Whether it’s a ruined liver from alcohol, no license due to DUI’s, several wrecked marriages, used up and worn out bodies from drugs, or whatever, the consequences WILL come–along with guilt and regret. Even then, our LORD has compassion on them and wants them to come to Him. Some may, but most won’t because of the pattern of self-government that rules their lives.
13 She took hold of him and kissed him…18 “Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning; let’s enjoy ourselves with love!” 21 With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk.
She got his full attention with a kiss. What gets our full attention? How can we deflect that “kiss?” I’m sure they had a good time, but at what expense? 27 Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death. 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. 2:19 None who go to her return or attain the paths of life.
Returning to our besetting sin keeps us from walking with Jesus with a free heart. Jesus said, “I have come that you may have life, and have it to the full [abundantly].” John 10:10b
All of a sudden, this next passage that usually sounds so “milk toast” takes on a whole new meaning:
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30
Jesus wants us to know that He understands the hold that sin has on our lives. He KNOWS that we fight with it everyday, that all of our senses are tainted with it and we carry it around in our bodies like a dead weight. Oh, what it must feel like to experience our new, glorified bodies in heaven where that weight of sin is gone!
So, how do we rid ourselves of besetting sin? Well, we don’t, really, not in this world. It always lurks in the shadows. We must be vigilant against it. How?
- Go to Jesus. He will give you rest. If you go to Him BEFORE you sin, then He can give you strength to overcome. 13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. 1 Corinthians 10:13
- Go to Jesus. If you go to Him AFTER you sin, He will provide comfort and grace along with insight for next time. Some of our closest fellowship with Him is waiting for us when we go to the Savior at our lowest point.
- Go to Jesus everyday. Begin the day with Him and walk with Him through the day. Many times, we can head off sin as He steers us around it. Trust Him; follow Him.
God is never exasperated with us. He is never irritated, nor is He disappointed. We are sheep. We “sheep” (whatever that means). He knows and still wants us to come to Him. He loves us with an everlasting love (Jer. 31:3) and rejoices/dances over us with singing (Zeph. 3:17). Let’s hold on to this truth!
Abba, thank You for loving us as we are. I look forward to the day when we will be as You have prepared for us to be: Holy, blameless, pure, and free from our sinful nature! I can hardly wait!!! In the meantime, help me to keep my eyes fixed on You, LORD, and to trust in Your guidance and strength. Amen.
So far I’ve done all right.
I haven’t gossiped,
haven’t lost my temper,
haven’t been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish, or overindulgent.
I’m really glad about that.
But in a few minutes, God,
I’m going to get out of bed.
And from then on,
I’m going to need a lot more help.