What is the foundation on which we build our lives? Is it rock or sand?
6 Start children off on the way they should go,
and even when they are old they will not turn from it.
In 2005, a poll was conducted by Barna, a reputable and thorough Christian polling company, of the number of children who were raised in Christian homes who quit following the Lord after one year at college. The number was an alarming 80%. It’s even worse now!
What happened? There was/is something wrong with their foundation. At first glance, one might say that their knowledge base was wrong, and to an extent, this is true. Unless a young person is grounded in the SCIENCE of a young earth and the Great Flood, he will have a difficult time enduring and succeeding in keeping his faith in today’s VERY secular college world. Many professors will blatantly tell the students that their goal is to make them into evolutionists by destroying the platform of their faith, and these professors are very good at it. We MUST do a better job of equipping our students with information that will give them the foundation to stand firm against such onslaughts. But, this topic is for another time.
The bedrock foundation for every Christian is the love of God. HE loves us, and HE desires a relationship with us. HE takes up residence in our hearts and lives, and HE speaks to us constantly. It is HIS voice that wakes us up each day, HIS voice that guides us during the day, and HIS voice that quiets our souls to go to sleep at night.
My son [child], do not despise the LORD’s discipline, and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son [child] he delights in. Proverbs 3:11-12.
Just before Moses died, he gave a great sermon. It is the book of Deuteronomy. In it, we find some real gems:
However, the LORD your God would not listen to Balaam but turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the LORD your God loves you. Deut. 23:5
“Surely it is you [LORD] who love the people; all the holy ones are in your hand. At your feet they all bow down, and from you receive instruction,” Deut. 33:3
[Moses gave a blessing to each of the tribes] About Benjamin he said: “Let the [My] beloved of the LORD [an intimate term of endearment] rest secure in him, for he shields him all day long, and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders [as a lamb rests on the shoulders of his shepherd].” Deut. 33:12
These were the children of the arrogant, ignorant, stiff-necked people that God led out of Egypt and called them His own children. This generation’s foundation was built on the Word of God given to them by God Himself, led by God Himself in a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night, who fed them Himself with manna from heaven, and spoke to them through Moses in the tent of meeting. They walked with God. They had experience on their side.
The question is, have we taught our children to walk with God? It’s not about the rules; it’s about the relationship. It’s not about what other people think about us, i.e. our reputation, nor is it about what embarrasses us (again, our reputation). Do we encourage them to ask God what to do? How to respond? In what to invest their time, money, talents, and relationships? I’m not talking about independence. I’m talking about interdependence, where we teach them to transfer their dependence from us to Him. We, as Christians, are never to be independent.
Because God loves us and desires an intimate relationship with us, He made it happen through Jesus so that His Spirit can now live in our hearts. Once we accept Him as our Lord and Savior, He takes up residence within us and begins a life-long process of sanctification: Becoming like Jesus. We feel His love all the time: Happy love, sad love, joyful love, warning love, quieting love, encouraging love, etc. We learn the language of His love through His Word, the Bible. It is His love letter to us.
Let’s make it a point today to read His love letters and look for the ways He expresses His love to us. Let’s listen for His voice as we go through our day, and obey Him in everything. It’s all about the relationship. As we demonstrate to our children and the people around us what an authentic relationship with Jesus is all about, we can teach them to have one, too. Then, when our children go to college, they have Him with them to help them overcome the lies and deceptions and traps that have been set for them by the enemy.
Abba, I love to hear Your voice speaking to me. It is what I live for. I can endure all things because I KNOW that You have my life in Your hands. I want to be a useful vessel for You. You are the Potter, and I am the clay. Mold me and make me into Your image, O Blessed Father. Thank You, Jesus, for making it happen. Thank You, Spirit, for living in me. Let’s GO! Amen.